We are wonderful little beings, always moving and changing. We need different things from the world at different times. We view the world in different lights. Let people know that you love them and surround yourself with those who make you better. You can’t save all friendships and the ones that can’t be saved are sometimes the ones that don’t need to be.

People’s direction, growth, and change are unpredictable. We can’t pen them in and lock them away. They won’t stay put and we shouldn’t have to convince them otherwise. It seems obvious that relationships, like all things, change, grow, or end. Time can turn close friends into distant acquaintances. Our lives are in constant motion. We change each day. Sometimes, we forget that the people who surround us also change every day. Some relationships are more forgiving. Some relationships grow together. They will shift and bend to fit together. Some we hang on to for the sake of the love that was once binding. A memory.

 Try your best to keep the people you really appreciate in your field of vision, cherish them, phone them. but understand that life has its own way of unfolding.

If one person rejects you, do not hold on to it. Some people choose to disregard your worth and treat you without kindness. But, not everyone will. The truth is that the way others treat us isn’t about us. It’s about them and their struggles, insecurities, and limits. You don’t have to allow their judgement to become your truth. 

You may not be able to control what other people say or how they act, but you can always choose how you treat yourself. Give yourself permission to be exactly who you are. The right people will find their way to you. They will love and accept you wholeheartedly. Let go of anyone who doesnt. 

Its such good soul work to reach out, connect and appreciate those in your life. Appreciate the roles people have played to make you – YOU! Call, text or write to those that cross your heart. 

In the cosmic dance of life, individuals come into our lives for distinct purposes: some for a reason, others for a season, and a select few for a lifetime. Understanding this empowers us to respond in harmony with the universe. 

When a person manifests in our lives for a reason, it is often to fulfill a need like physical, emotional, or spiritual. Their presence feels like a divine blessing. Once their purpose is fulfilled, the energy shifts, prompting us to release and surrender the relationship. 

Others grace our journey for a fleeting moment. These connections mirror the transient nature of the seasons themselves. These folks are important  to our growth and we enrich eachothers experiences. 

Those who  in our lives for a lifetime contribute to the formation of our lives. We cannot always know when they will show up in our lives but these people are our saftey and our alignment to wisdom and community. 

All of these are important, and knowing when to let go or hold on is an art. 

For any relationships that need releasing HERE is a meditation that is only 5 minutes and will help those invisible heart strings relax.